Adultery - the healing process

Can a woman survive being betrayed by her husband?

Yes. Is it easy? Hell no. Is it better to get a divorce? It all depends on you request and on the situation. In the Bible, a woman has the right to divorce from her husband's infidelity. Does God prefer reconciliation? Yes, if there has been a true repentance. Both spouses have to deal as a couple to make things work. However, the unfaithful man must remorse for their actions. He must be prepared to face the consequences of adultery. What the consequences? Continue reading.

A woman who has been betrayed will need long so they can "trust" again. The man must be willing to accept it. Many men don't want to wait for this albeit who cheated on his wife. The man must be willing to stay with his wife. Men to see how "tied" or no privacy. Once again, forget of was his actions that led to this place of mistrust. However, if a man wants to make her marriage work again, he must be willing to do these things. He should be ready to break all ties with the mistress, even if it means movement, get another job, etc..

A woman needs time to recover, and this does not happen quickly. A man will say, "I said sorry, so which on it and move on." What a man does not realize is that a woman will very probably have provided the matter took to heal. For example, if the affair lasted for 3 years, women will need about 3 years heal. Some are faster, some take longer (those who have a difficult time forgiving).

A woman never forgets the memories of the betrayal. If it was a very painful time, things will stimulate the memories of a woman. Thus she will revive those terrible moments and start to hate you new! That is why women should seek God with all his heart. You must choose to forgive her husband when they are ready. Once they are ready, you must forgive on a daily basis. Why? Two reasons: the forgiveness is a process. And because it is easy to fall into the bitterness, anger and the pain of her husband what he did to them. A woman must be based on the Holy Spirit to do a job in it. She must renew his mind on a daily basis with the word of God. Pray much! Most importantly, lawyer search and find friends who are willing to help you through the process of healing without telling him that she is crazy to stay with him. She needs people who will not judge or criticize his decision to stay in the marriage.

Mary l. Weinstein is a certified trainer of purpose in life and biblical counsel. He has a Bachelor's degree in theology in biblical counseling. She is an ordained minister. Mary is the founder and CEO of friends for the purpose of ministries. It offers various services, including training, advice, articles, resources, links, a radio show and a blog. For more information visit: http://friendswithpurpose.com